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MY SUICIDE NOTE

I’ve read about two suicide cases in two days. One was about #segun and the other one about the UNN student who had a first class. A lot of people’s comments have been so cruel and all they call them is cowards, selfish, weak and so many other unprintable names. These guys and many more who have committed or attempted suicide didn’t want to die. They love life like you and me but all they wanted to was to end the pain and dying looks like it’s what gives them the avenue to do that. Pain can alter you forever. Pain can make you unrecognizable to yourself. What we also need to know is that everyone’s threshold for pain is different. I have had two babies and I can tell you that the last pain nearly took me out until the gynecologist offered me an option for Caesarean or Epidural Injection. Meanwhile, some people can handle labor pain well even for the next 48 hours without any form of relief. Does that make me less of a woman? NO!! It just means I have a low threshold

STOP LIVING TO PROVE PEOPLE WRONG!!!

I am sure a lot of you are familiar with the story of Blessing CEO on Instagram who showed off someone else’s house as her own until the rightful owner came and prove her wrong. A lot of people have had so many things to say about it and I want to look from it from another angle. When she shared the message on her 30th birthday(according to her), she said her husband chased her out of their one bedroom apartment 8 years ago and today she has built a 7 Bedroom Duplex in replacement. So for me, the key word is “chasing away” and what she has done in replacement. In my opinion, she went to that length because SHE WANTED TO PROVE HER EX HUSBAND WRONG!!! This is what a lot of us are doing today. Living to prove our parents, siblings, friends, exes, teachers, mentors and so many other people who have said terrible things about us wrong. We want to show then that they were wrong by looking down on us and without their help we would become someone great in life.When you live

BUSOLA DAKOLO’S STORY OF RAPE

Sorry lovelies, I needed to say this cos its disheartening If you know what Rape victims go through, you will NEVER defend rape. If you know how they struggle with identity crisis for the rest of their adult years, you will stone rapists. If you know how dirty and worthless they feel, you will fight that they castrate rapists.. RAPE is a significant emotional experience that changes the life of the victim forever. Some of them are very angry with life. They react over excessively to things and you will be wondering why they are that edgy. I know this because I see them everyday. I deal with them everyday. I see how torn and broken they are because I help them heal. Some of them can’t give themselves wholly to their boyfriends or husbands because a part of them have been killed. I know a girl who is 20 years and her dad raped her from when she was 9 years old. She is a shadow of herself. Some days she wants to die, other days, she is cutting herself. I feel so pained

Benny: ARE YOU REPEATING THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS?

Benny: ARE YOU REPEATING THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS? : I come across a lot of people who when I have a discussion with, they tell me how they don’t need to go through Healing or Therapy because ...

ARE YOU REPEATING THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS?

I come across a lot of people who when I have a discussion with, they tell me how they don’t need to go through Healing or Therapy because they can’t seem to remember being wounded and as such don’t need it. The truth is a lot of us have been wounded unknowingly by our parents, siblings, friends, spouses, colleagues and society in general and we have no idea.  Most of us are living a life that have been handed to us by our parents, environment and significant emotional experiences and we don’t even know. There are four stages of knowing that I have come to realize. 1) Those who don’t know that they don’t know that anything is wrong with them. 2) Those who know that something is wrong and have resigned to fate. 3) Those who know that something is wrong and they want a change but won’t do anything about it. 4) Those who know that there is a problem, they want a change and are ready to go through the process of making a change. So, which one are you? Are you living the

Its been ages

Hi sugars Its been ages I have written..... I kinda miss you guys😍😍. Hope y"all miss me too? I have been quite busy with school and all. Will really find time to write more. Just remember Benny got your back and I'm returning with an amazing, sweet, hot topics. Watch out for those, its gonna be lit🔥🔥🔥🔥

WHY YOU KEEP CHOOSING FUCK BOYS AND GIRLS

I saw a tweet sometime ago about one lady telling her friend that she attracts “Fuck boys” all the time but her friend told her that she’s a woman that attracts all types of men but she choses fuck boys. Chai!!! That response touched me deeply in my soul and is the reason why I am writing this email today. Have you wondered why you keep choosing people that hurt you over and over again? Could it be that you are replaying a script that you are not even aware of? Check your patterns and see who in your family or around you have gone through or is going through what you are also going through and that may be able to explain your issues. It doesn’t have to be your mum or dad who have had the issues you are having. It could be your guardians or the people around you like your friends that you have known for a very long time. Things don’t just happen in isolation. It’s either you are rebelling or reacting against something from your childhood that you have no idea of. For in

YOUR CHILDHOOD AND YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

Hi lovelies! Its been a while just wanted you guys to exhaust the vibes of val Here our topic today is" YOUR CHILDHOOD AND YOUR RELATIONSHIPS" Oh wow😌😌 so excited..... Are you? “I grew up in a highly abusive and dysfunctional household, my father was a terror, he would hit my mum so much that we would have to rush her to hospital almost everyday. I and my siblings were not spared in the beatings too and soon enough my big brother joined him.. He would hit anyone  over the slightest provocation even my mum. We lived in daily fear like prisoners.. I couldn't understand why mum didn't end the marriage and flee so I vowed never to be like her and tolerate crap from men.. Before I even started dating, I already hated men.. By 23 i was the queen of "men are scum" gang like literally, i ran an online page and everything.. But like everyone else, i still wanted to find love, i would get lots of toasters but somehow I always managed to choose the ones

Do you have a val?

Helo guys! Its Valentine's day, a day we have talked so much about, planned and prepared for, it here. So what's your plan, who is your val? I bet its someone special.😊😊😊😊😊 Hmmmmm! Today I want to talk about those who don't have that 'special someone' to share this day with. Now ladies who doesn't have that certain ' special someone' , I want you to go out and get one. Sweety you deserve one. Go out there wearing a brilliantly, lovely dress put on a light makeup and go out there and get the guy you always wanted. Some ladies will say "Rose I'm shy I can't get the attention of the guy I wanted". Babe, you can, I assure you that. Just throw a a glance at him and make sure he catches your eyes before pulling away and I assure you he will continue to turn and look at your directions all through his stay. Then you can give him let's say 30mins before walking up to him and say " hi! I noticed your eyes staring". Rememb

IT IS NOT NORMAL TO GO THROUGH THESE THINGS ...

You may have been going through a cycle of pain, negative treatment and abuse in your relationship and marriage and have concluded that it is a normal event in life. Well, let me tell you this today.. It is not normal to be neglected and abandoned emotionally. It is not normal to be talked down on and cut in pieces by the person you truly love and claim to love you. It is not normal to be cheated on consistently and everyone keeps saying such is the way of men or women. It is not normal that your partner does not care about your feelings or opinions on things in your relationship. It is not normal for your relationship to keep removing from you instead of adding to your life. It is not normal to see your partner and all you feel is sadness and a great sense of overwhelm. It is not normal to feel suicidal in your relationship because of the pain it is consistently bringing to you. It is not normal for you to be in pain everyday because of your relationship or marriage.

six ways women can sabotage a relationship

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Hi lovelies its been a long while now ladies, here want to share with you a secret to get your guy or keep him. It’s about 6 ways women can accidentally sabotage a relationship. Read it, take an honest look at yourself, and see if you identify with any of the behaviors… But be sure to stay with me until the end of this email, because I’ll be back with some really good news about the #1 way to get your ex back ...OR get over him for good (and move on to someone even better!) if you decide that's what's best for you in the end. Here’s Stephen… Most women intuitively understand that no guy can be manipulated, emotionally cajoled, or Jedi mind-tricked into staying in a relationship. Yet at a subconscious level, men and women will engage in all kinds of behaviors to plug up their insecure fears that one day their partner might suddenly stop loving them, or run off with someone else, or decide to retire to a Tibetan monastery, scrub pots, and remain celibate

Stephanie Linus gets special recognition in Los Angeles, as she meets Beyonce’s mother

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 Stephanie Linus gets special recognition in Los Angeles, as she meets Beyonce’s mother   Stephanie Okereke-Linus with her special recognition award. Source: Instagram.     Nigerian actress and filmmaker, Stephanie Okereke-Linus has received special recognition at the first ‘Blacks in Cinema’ presentation in Los Angeles. The News Agency of Nigeria  reports that the honour was for her award-winning movie, ‘Dry’ which has earned a reputation for its production and focus on the perils of child marriage in Northern Nigeria. The ‘Blacks in Cinema’ presentation held at the Los Angeles City Council Chambers on Tuesday as part of the opening of the highly-covered Pan African Film and Arts Festival which will hold in Los Angeles later in February. Los Angeles City Council President, Herb Wesson kicked off the Black History Month by honouring the actors and filmmakers who paved the way for people all walks of life to be represented

Election: Buhari arrives in Makurdi for campaign

Election: Buhari arrives in Makurdi for campaign   President Muhammadu Buhari on Wednesday arrived in Makurdi airport for his presidential campaign rally in Benue State. The News Agency of Nigeria reports that the presidential jet conveying the President and his entourage touched down at the Makurdi airport at 10.45am. The president is accompanied on the trip by top party officials and a host of governors. Buhari is expected to pay a courtesy call on the Tor Tiv, Prof. James Ayatse, and meet with Gov. Samuel Ortom at the Government House before proceeding to the Aper Aku Stadium for the rally. Meanwhile, security around the campaign venue is tight as the All Progressives Congress supporters troop to the stadium awaiting the president. (NAN)

US, UK, EU’s comments on Onnoghen’s suspension, ‘most irresponsible’ —El-Rufai

US, UK, EU’s comments on Onnoghen’s suspension, ‘most irresponsible’ —El-Rufai   Kaduna State Governor Nasir el-Rufai Oladimeji Ramon The Governor of Kaduna State, Mallam Nasir El-Rufai, has described as “most irresponsible” the comments of the United States of America, the United Kingdom and the European Union on President Muhammadu Buhari’s suspension of the Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Walter Onnoghen, who is facing non-declaration of assets charges. He said the foreign countries had no right to lecture Nigerians how to run their country. The US, UK and EU had expressed reservations about the legality of Onnoghen’s suspension unilaterally by Buhari without the input of the National Assembly. They also expressed reservation about the timing of Onnoghen’s suspension against the backdrop of an allegation by the opposition parties that Buhari wanted to take control of the judiciary ahead of the general elections in ord

Fire destroys 30 rooms in students’ hostel at Kano varsity

Fire destroys 30 rooms in students’ hostel at Kano varsity   Fire outbreak. File photo The Kano State Fire Service on Wednesday confirmed a fire outbreak that destroyed an upper section of a female hostel at the Kano University of Science and Technology, Wudil. Alhaji Saidu Mohammed, the State Fire Service spokesman, told the News Agency of Nigeria in Kano that the incident which occurred on Tuesday night resulted from high voltage. He said that a total of 30 rooms, 20 toilets and four kitchens were completely razed. “We received a distress call at 09:52pm from one Alhaji Sagiru that there was a fire outbreak in the university. “On receiving the information, we quickly sent some of our personnel and fire fighting vehicles to the scene at 10:21pm to quench the fire,’’ he said. Mohammed, however, said that no life was lost to the fire, noting that students were still at home because of lecturers’ strike. (NAN)

PDP coming to put smiles on faces of Nigerians, says Peter Obi

PDP coming to put smiles on faces of Nigerians, says Peter Obi   Peter Obi Mr Peter Obi, the vice-presidential candidate of Peoples Democratic Party has said that his party will bring back smiles to the faces of Nigerians when it wins the February 16 presidential election. Obi said this while addressing newsmen before embarking on a roadshow in Awka on Tuesday. He said PDP would restore the country’s days of economic prosperity which had suffered set back under the All Progressives Congress administration. He said voting back the APC meant “prolonging the suffering in the land”.“The country is collapsing under the watch of incompetent and incapable people; come out en mass on February 16 and vote out this the APC controlled-government. “Nigeria has the highest number of poor people in the world today where about 90 million are poor. That is half of the population. “About 21 million youths are unemployed, nobody is happy wi

Court to resume trial of Fayose on Feb 7

Court to resume trial of Fayose on Feb 7   Ayo Fayose A Federal High Court in Lagos on Wednesday fixed February 7 for the continuation of trial of the immediate past governor of Ekiti, Mr Ayodele Fayose, over alleged N6.9 billion fraud. The case which was earlier fixed for today for the continuation of cross-examination of the fifth prosecution witness has been shifted to Thursday. On the next adjourned date, both the prosecutor, Mr Rotimi Jacobs (SAN), and the defence counsel, Mr Olalekan Ojo (SAN), will address the court on the admissibility of an extrajudicial statement made by a party who is not standing trial. Fayose was arraigned by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission in October 22, 2018 alongside a company Spotless Investment Ltd on 11 counts. He had pleaded not guilty to the charges and the court had granted him bail in the sum of N50 million with one surety in like sum. EFCC had opened case for the

Boko Haram attacks Adamawa, kills three, torches clinics, shops

Boko Haram attacks Adamawa, kills three, torches clinics, shops   Olaleye Aluko, John Charles and Adeniyi Olugbemi Boko Haram insurgents have attacked Shuwa and Karchinga villages in the Madagali Local Government Area of Adamawa State, killing three persons, burning shops and two clinics. A village head in Magadali LGA told one of our correspondents on Tuesday that the insurgents came to the community at about 6pm on Monday. “But we mistook them for soldiers because they wore military camouflage and came in army vehicles,” he said. The Nigerian Army on Tuesday confirmed the attacks on the communities in  Madagali Local Government Area, saying troops of the 143 Battalion engaged the insurgents. The army said its troops were in pursuit of the fleeing insurgents. One of our correspondents gathered that the terrorist attacks lasted for about two hours, with the Boko Haram fighters looting shops and stealing foodstuffs. A community head

EFCC planning to arrest Onnoghen today – CUPP

EFCC planning to arrest Onnoghen today – CUPP   Chief Justice of Nigeria, Walter Onnoghen The first national spokesperson for the Coalition of United Political Parties, Imo Ugochinyere, in a statement said the CUPP had uncovered plan by the EFCC to arrest the suspended Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Walter Onnoghen on Wednesday (Today). “The secretariat of the CUPP has uncovered the latest plot by the Presidency to arrest the Chief Justice of Nigeria, Justice Walter  Onnoghen tomorrow (Wednesday) being February 6, 2019 and immediately commence their final descent to infamy by forcing him to resign at gunpoint. “The latest recruit in this plot against the CJN being the Chairman of the EFCC has been given the mandate to execute this plot and has been told there would be no margin for error as the CJN must resign from office or from life one way or the other,” Ugochinyere claimed. But the acting spokesman for EFCC, Tony

ASUU conducts referendum on strike

ASUU conducts referendum on strike Ademola Babalola, Ibadan The Academic Staff Union of Universities on Tuesday conducted a referendum to decide whether to suspend its three-month strike or not. The national leaders of the union on Monday directed its zonal coordinators to meet and conduct the referendum. Over 200 members of the University of Ibadan chapter,  who attended the congress allegedly voted for the continuation of the strike while a little above 50 voted for the suspension of the strike. The Chairman of the University of Ibadan Chapter, Dr Deji Omole,   told our correspondent on the telephone that the congress only conducted a referendum on what the Federal government had offered the union to call off the strike. Omole stated that the FG  promised to include the earned academic allowances in their 2019  salaries. He also said the FG  had decided to release N25bn for university revitalisation while the rest will be released after identifying sources to fund it.

onto Dikeh slams fellow celebrities, exposes their ‘fake’ lifestyle

Tonto Dikeh slams fellow celebrities, exposes their ‘fake’ lifestyle. Popular Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh has taken to her Instagram page to expose the fake lifestyle of some celebrities on social media. Tonto Dikeh advised her followers not to be derailed by the ‘flashiness’ of the lives celebrities put up on social media because most of them are fake. She said some celebrities travel abroad just once in a year, but take enough pictures to continue sharing on social media all year. The actress wrote: “Don’t be fooled nor be pressured to live on the fast lane. “I know people (male and female) who travel abroad once a year and take pics to last the gram for a year, slowly releasing them to make us feel they travel everyday!! “I know people (male and female) who change four times on a one time trip on private jets for pictures and post them periodically and we feel they travel every second in style. “No pun intended but this is to say never want anyone’s life. “WORK YO

oyin Abraham reacts to alleged ‘relationship with Osinbajo

oyin Abraham reacts to alleged ‘relationship with Osinbajo Popular Nollywood actress, Toyin Abraham, has addressed reports of her alleged secret relationship with Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo. Reports had emerged that Toyin was having an affair with Osinbajo after she was spotted hanging out with the VP at the distribution/monitoring of Tradermoni in Ibadan. But reacting, Toyin on her Instagram page refuted the report, saying she only dates for love, not for money. The actress said this while responding to a question by a fan asking her if Osinbajo was her ‘sugar daddy.’ He had asked, ”Abi na your sugar daddy?, just joking oo. “See your tiny legs that is chasing young boys away from you, anyway Osibanjo is old and rich lol. you gonna get a new home.” Responding she said, “Ask around, I don’t date for money, I date for love and I’m hardworking and contending.” daily post news.com

Mentioning PDP’s name gives me a headache, Osinbajo laments

Mentioning PDP’s name gives me a headache, Osinbajo laments Tobi Aworinde, Abuja Vice-President Yemi Osinbajo, on Tuesday, said he hated mentioning the name of the ruling party from which the Buhari administration took over because doing so gives him a headache. He accused the Peoples Democratic Party of neglecting Nigerians’ social welfare during its 16 years of governance at the federal level. Osinbajo, who spoke at the All Progressives Congress presidential campaign in Ondo State, stated that many of the initiatives of the current government should have been conceived and implemented by the previous administrations. The Vice President said, “Don’t let us deceive ourselves. What has held our country back for so long is corruption. That is why we say we cannot go back; all of these things we are doing are things that should have been done long ago. “We should have completed the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway by now. But we just started doing it. The ones that were doing it bef

NDLEA raids hard drug black spots, arrests 39 in Abia

NDLEA raids hard drug black spots, arrests 39 in Abia   NDLEA officials and the seized consignments. NAN photo The National Drug Law Enforcement Agency has raided 30 hard drug black spots in Abia and arrested 39 persons in the last three months. Mr. Bamidele Akingbade, the commander of the agency in state disclosed this to newsmen in Aba on Tuesday. He said that the raid and arrest of the suspects took place between December 2018 and February 2019, adding that those involved included 34 males and 5 females. He listed towns raided to include Umuahia, Aba, Ohafia, Arochukwu and Isiukwuato areas of the state. He said drugs ranging from cannabis, skonk cannabis, cocaine, heroin and other psychotropic substances were found on them. Other things found on the suspects, according to him are stimulants and depressants like tramadol, rophenol, diazepam, benelyn and codeine. He said the agency also recovered eight locally-made single

Boko Haram: We will conduct elections in Madagali, Adamawa INEC vows

Boko Haram: We will conduct elections in Madagali, Adamawa INEC vows   Specimen of INEC ballot paper. Web image The Independent National Electoral Commission in Adamawa State says the Monday night attack by suspected insurgents in Madagali Local Government Area of the state, will not deter it from conducting elections in the area. The News Agency of Nigeria reports that there was an insurgent attack in Kirchinga and Shuwa villages of Madagali LGA. Mr. Kasim Gaidam, the state’s Resident Electoral Commissioner told NAN that the commission was committed to conducting elections in designated areas in Madagali. “The Independent National Electoral Commission, the good people of Madagali and the entire Adamawa State have resolved to ensure election is conducted in Madagali. “No amount of threats, intimidation and sabotage would stop INEC from conducting the elections,” Gaidam said. The REC said the commission, with the support o

10 Short Haircut Styles That Would Make You Visit Your Barber Soon

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10 Short Haircut Styles That Would Make You Visit Your Barber Soon   It doesn’t have to be braids, wigs or dreadlocks all the time, sometimes, you need a breath of fresh and a change of style. Everyone knows that wearing low cut hair is a look that not just anyone can pull off nicely. Low hair cut shows the real beauty of a woman and thankfully some of our favourite celebrities have rocked the style. Are you considering having a cut? Here are some of the style that would make you want to visit your barber as soon as possible. .Tiwa Savage sure knows how to rock the short hair with style 2.Nancy Isime slays blonde short haircut effortlessly 3. Short haircut styles look so go od on Annie Idibia 4. Chidinma got us gushing over her short haircut style 5. Debbie Rise pulled oof a new look with the short haircut style that’s major goals 6.Adesua Etomi is a sweetheart in the short haircut style 7.Rapper, Eva Alordiah looks good in the wavy short haircut style

Uche Jombo Rains Curses on Pirates

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Uche Jombo Rains Curses on Pirates by Timilehin « PREVIOUS | NEXT » Popular Nollywood actress Uche Jombo has rained curses on people who upload Nollywood movies to their site without the permission of the owners. According to her, such act sends the revenue to be made from the movie into the pocket of these people who can also be termed pirates, while the owners of the movie count loses. Taking to social media, Uche Jombo wrote: Let’s discuss Nollywood illegal uploads please which is not just a sin against the film makers but sin against God Are you kidding me? Do you know what WE go through? Had an interesting chat with some people who uploaded my film DAMAGE illegally on their site, the sense of entitlement to that ‘you never make money reach feeling ? to calling me an imposter on their little WhatsApp group…got me thinking of how we can ALL do better this 2019 Because the thunder tha

Teen Actress Regina Daniel earns 600,000naira for every movie role she plays.

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Teen Actress Regina Daniel earns 600,000naira for every movie role she plays.   Home Entertainment Teen Actress Regina Daniel earns 600,000naira for every movie role she plays. Teen Actress Regina Daniel earns 600,000naira for every movie role she plays. Regina Daniels, fast rising nollywood teen actress is currently having the best of times, though not yet at the peak of her acting career. In the latest edition of House of Maliq, Regina Daniel says a lot about her ever thriving career in the movie industry and also her salary for every movie she features in. The light skinned actress revealed that she receives N600, 000 for every movie role she plays. Aside from acting, Regina Daniels is a singer, model and a philanthropist. She was born on the 13th of May, 2000 in Asaba, Delta State, Nigeria. In the year 2007, Regina Daniels joined the movie industry through the assistance of her mother, Rita Daniel, an actress,

I’m going for Big Brother Africa. Too big for bbnaija – Bobrisky Reveals

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I’m going for Big Brother Africa. Too big for bbnaija – Bobrisky Reveals Mercy Obidake February 1, 2019 Celebrity , Gossip No Comments I’m going for Big Brother Africa. Too big for bbnaija – Bobrisky Reveals. Popular crossdresser, Bobrisky has revealed his intentions towards the reality show, Big brother Naija. He says he is too big to attend it, rather he is aiming for Big brother Africa.