I come across a lot of people who when I have a discussion with, they tell me how they don’t need to go through Healing or Therapy because they can’t seem to remember being wounded and as such don’t need it. The truth is a lot of us have been wounded unknowingly by our parents, siblings, friends, spouses, colleagues and society in general and we have no idea. Most of us are living a life that have been handed to us by our parents, environment and significant emotional experiences and we don’t even know. There are four stages of knowing that I have come to realize. 1) Those who don’t know that they don’t know that anything is wrong with them. 2) Those who know that something is wrong and have resigned to fate. 3) Those who know that something is wrong and they want a change but won’t do anything about it. 4) Those who know that there is a problem, they want a change and are ready to go through the process of making a change. So, which one are you? Are you living the