Benny: ARE YOU REPEATING THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS?

Benny: ARE YOU REPEATING THE MISTAKES OF YOUR PARENTS?: I come across a lot of people who when I have a discussion with, they tell me how they don’t need to go through Healing or Therapy because ...

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