Love in Relationship

Hi Guys!

Welcome to the 3rd of February. Its 11days to Valentine's day, lover's day.

Our topic today is love in Relationship!

Oh many of us will say in wide eyes, " ohhh well ' love in relationship"!

Well yes, love in relationship. The question is "do we still practice love in relationship?"
Majority of the relationships formed today especially here in Nigeria are not usually based on the feeling of true love.
A guy will ask a lady out, and the next thing the lady will be thinking is.....
"Is he rich, do he own a car, is he tall, is he handsome?"
"Awww he is hot! i guess I can show him off to my friends".
" Awww he has cash! OMG I'm now a big bae with a rich boyfriend my friends will be jealous of me" etc.

And the guys,?

"Wow that girl is hot! I can't wait to hold her"
" shit I can't just wait to touch and feel those boobs"
"Wow she is beautiful I can't wait to have her and brag to my friends"

Nonsense!
Where do we keep the inner feelings in our heart?
That silent sweet feeling that keep drawing you to a certain someone, even when you don't have a reason to like that person. A sweet feeling that makes an ugly person beautiful before you, that feeling of having everything when you can get that person in your life, seeing that your problems will be solved provided that person is in your life.

I don't mean infatuation
I don't mean getting attracted for just a certain period of time or getting attracted by just the physique of that person

I am talking about the real love that looks beyond the physique, pocket etc of the person. But looks at the in beauty of that person.

No wonder why the bible said, " love is the greatest"

I want us to return that love back to our today's relationship. And build relationship on love not on material things, physique and infatuation.

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