WHY YOU KEEP CHOOSING FUCK BOYS AND GIRLS

I saw a tweet sometime ago about one lady telling her friend that she attracts “Fuck boys” all the time but her friend told her that she’s a woman that attracts all types of men but she choses fuck boys.

Chai!!!

That response touched me deeply in my soul and is the reason why I am writing this email today.

Have you wondered why you keep choosing people that hurt you over and over again?

Could it be that you are replaying a script that you are not even aware of?

Check your patterns and see who in your family or around you have gone through or is going through what you are also going through and that may be able to explain your issues.

It doesn’t have to be your mum or dad who have had the issues you are having. It could be your guardians or the people around you like your friends that you have known for a very long time.

Things don’t just happen in isolation. It’s either you are rebelling or reacting against something from your childhood that you have no idea of.

For instance, if your mum is very docile to your aggressive dad, you could turn around having an aggressive husband and being very docile and a doormat or you could just be the aggressor having docile partners whom you have to push and push till they snap or you get to your limit.

90% of what happens to you now are born from your subsconscious which includes learnings from your childhood, environment and your significant emotional experiences..

For you to break free from this cycle, you need to intervention that can interrupt this unhealthy pattern.

You need to unlearn a lot of the things that aren’t serving you and relearn great things that can move you forward.

You acquired these things subconsciously which is why you need a subconscious intervention to delete them from the memory bank of your mind.